Monday, December 25, 2017

fired for bias against Trump.

If you told me someone was fired for fanning the flames of hatred toward a race or religion, I would understand that.
If you told me someone was fired for treating women like second class citizens or for refusing to serve people from the LGBT community, I would get that.
If you told me that someone was fired for condoning gun violence or proselytizing for their religion while at work, I would fully approve of that.

But how does one NOT have an opinion about TRUMP!

You either love him or hate him, and his average approval rating for the last year is about 40%.
That means that 60% of people are not loving him.
That could easily mean that 60% of government employees are not loving him.
That means that Our President can, by virtue of his desire to remove anyone that might be biased against him, ask for the resignation of 60% of our government employees.

Profiling is a frequently used tool in policing these days.  Profiling is the use of bias.  So does that mean we can ask for the resignation of every Law Enforcement Officer that uses profiling in his job?
(I'm seeing a ray of sunshine in this murky method of thinking.)

But really--if I say the president lies, and their are so many lies on video tape right now recording the lies coming out of his mouth it could have its own streaming TV channel--am I biased or merely being honest, stating the obvious, whatever.

Bias implies things; "to cause to feel or show inclination or prejudice for or against someone or something": but if the bias is actually being created by the behavior of the single individual that the bias is created against, is it bias or just good sense.

Because, Yes, when Trumps mouth is moving, I expect lies to be coming out.  For him to expect me to believe anything he says, I will need a brand new leaf turned over.  I'll need months of absolute truth and an end to all the amazing financial gains he has added to a job that traditionally made people a little better off but that is now providing income in the 10 figure range from foreign business and political powers staying in Trump-owned hotels and "pay to see the man" events are now part of the method of governing at the presidential level.

I have heard him described by a relative that frankly hates all things democrat and only watches FOX news because all the others are full of "fake news" as "an imperfect man"  which sounds biblically speaking like Adam or maybe King David.

I'm still trying to figure out how he created the "perfect storm" of demonized, cheating DNC giving us a woman to vote for that was much easier to hate than love (Hillary is not cuddly, and America mostly likes its women cuddly, especially the religious part of America.  If Hillary had been more biker chick or grace slick, she could have grabbed some of Trumps camo-wearers, but as it is, not cuddly, just straight to business.  Maybe a mullet would have helped) so that less than half the independents and democrats bothered to vote; an underground surge of white supremists ALL showing up to vote, frequently in their camo or biker leathers, and a bunch of church people that wouldn't normally talk to the grandson of a scamming con-man from Germany that was big in the KKK; bankrupt repeatedly, only married eastern bloc supermodels (except Miss Maple--a Georgia peach only worth 2 million at the end of the marriage.(?) 

While modern televangelism is full of hypocrisy, infidelity, scammish financial behaviors, and shocking (ho-hum) scandals, even Trump seemed too far from the flock for their vote. He can neither quote scripture without a teleprompter or pray in the appropriate tone of voice.  Apparently the white and godly just  missed the strong desire to return to the old--white--American ways.

So, the question is--can only people that like president Trump be the judges of his behavior?  Do you have to like him to work for the government?  

Is it going to become a land of mind control?... or speech control?...a land of one branch of government controlled by an all-powerful man-king?

Will we soon have a dictator that can tell us who can run against him, who gets to vote, how we have to vote. 

I wonder if we will have to kneel and call him god...or will he accept just the title "supreme leader" from a people that only speak when given permission.

Fired for bias against--right now everyone either hates him or believes he is going to "save us" despite his awfulness.

Merry Christmas.  May we all keep our jobs another year.




Sunday, December 3, 2017

Who's crazy?


We have averaged a mass shooting a day this year.  Lets have a moment of silence and pray for the survivors.
Hillary had her emails on a personal servor.  LOCK HER UP!
Trump retweeted a video originally posted by a far right English hate group--in which the final part had already been debunked.  No big deal.
Trump bragged about being able to grab women by the pussy on a video.  Boys will be boys.
A female police officer shot an unarmed man over 10 foot away from her because she was scared for her life, and a jury called it a justified police shooting.  There were 2 other officers with her, both closer to him than she was.  The video showed a man moving so slowly that their was no way he could have effectively done anyone any harm.   Justified.
Russia meddled in the US election.  The winning team knew it.  Not a problem.
People are kneeling during our national anthem.  OMG, lock them up and throw away the key.
People are trying to take away our confederate hero statues.  NO, Say it's not so, our history is at stake!
People are trying to legalize marijuana.  Look what stinking Colorado started--perhaps that was the Rocky Mountain High from the song.
People are trying to take away our guns. You'll have to pry them from our dead, cold fingers.
Gay people are getting married.  That is an affront to all heterosexual Christian marriages.
Nonchristians are entering our country legally.  We are a Christian nation.
Mexicans are entering our country illegally and using up all our resources and committing crimes.
No Mexicans are showing up to work our farms and pick our fruit and vegetables and clean our houses and watch our kids.
People without money think they should get free healthcare.  (unspoken message-die, poor folks, die!)
People making billions don't think they should have to pay people enough to live on because it cuts into their profits.  (all the money should belong to the rich, then the peasants will know we own them body and soul)
I have a hard time understanding  the awful stuff we normalize and the simple stuff we demonize as unacceptable and evil.

1. Why should healthcare NOT be free to everyone equally.  We have a right to "Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness."  Try having any of that with an unset broken arm, a raging infection or an untreated case of type 2 diabetes mellitus.  All of Europe has universal health care.  So does Canada.  Rwanda, Russia, Botswana, Serbia, and Jamaica have FREE UNIVERSAL HEALTHCARE.  But here, we think there are people that should die because they are not capable to getting a job that provides healthcare or that make too little to pay copays.

2.  Why should Education NOT be free from preschool thru Doctorate programs.  Also free should be Vocational programs and technical schools.  Instead of making people and their parents buy them entry into a future job, we allow individual strengths and desires for jobs as well as sensible numbers of programs for jobs (we don't need 200 millions medical assistants so why have 200 million medical assistant openings for training.)  Brilliant poor people should not be washing dishes and rich slow people should not be wasting space in MBA programs because the owner wants his kid to look qualified.

3.  Guns, why are they wide open.  Why can every crazy person have an arsenal.  Why are the records showing who owns what and who bought what, not only not national, but not computerized.  Apparently, we in the USA are more concerned that someone that wants to kill someone has difficulty doing that, than someone that needs an antibiotic has difficulty getting one.

4.  Why are people so concerned about the personal lives of people different than they are, the religion of immigrants, the sexual orientation of  same sex couples, the birth gender of soldiers, but totally forgiving of sexual predators, pedophiles, scammers, cheaters, and liars if they share the same religion or political party.

5.  Why does every person with a job that pays better than minimum wage think they are middle class.  $30,000/year, $300,000 a year, they all think they are middle class, and don't get that all the middle class people aren't living just like them.  The top think they are average.  The bottom think they are average.  And both think that their problem are those poor people under them--who, by the way, are poor, not because their parents were poor, not because they were discriminated against by the whole system, but because they are losers that just didn't work hard enough.

Our problem is systemic.  But our system is made up of individuals.  Individuals that prefers to feel good about themselves while blaming everyone else for the problems.  We have become a nation of deflectors, a nation of moneygrubbers, a nation of scammers and liars and blamers.  We have become a nation of haters.

And while I know plenty of people trying to hold on to their sense of right and wrong:  Trying to maintain an ethical compass pointing true north, most of us are getting tired.  We are starting to hate the craziness and the people that are keeping it going.  

Hating crazy people, is crazy.

So, what's the problem?

We are.

Pogo was right.



Friday, September 29, 2017

Redacted!!!!

Warning, possible less than appropriate joke coming. (but it's one of my favorites)

The Sadist and the Masochist meet in a bar.
The masochist says to the sadist "hurt me".
The sadist replies "No"

On a more serious note, how does one punish a malignant narcissist?
More importantly, how does one punish a rich, famous, powerful malignant narcissist?

Redact them from the history books.

right now

10 years from now

100 years from now.

That would be my new favorite joke.

Monday, September 4, 2017

living in every time

I was thinking about what technology has done to or for us,our ability to experience different times/cultures/etc due to technology allowing us to escape our own lives while learning more from the lives of others.  It should help us empathize.  It should help us understand all sides of a situation, both historical and epic and small and individual.

If I compare our current technological ability to illustrate events in full color to oral history and books and literature, I must admit that it is faster and capable of showing us more viewpoints than more traditional story-telling.  The oral histories were always stopped by the death of the losers--unless a child or two remembered a story and went on sharing it as bedtime stories instead of community tradition.  Books, which can remain less changing than oral tradition, are always from a specific perspective.  You can read dozens of books on one event and get a more realistic viewpoint, but that can take a very long time.

But our current movies, while fast, allowing us to watch everything on a subject in a matter of weeks if we are eagerly researching a subject, can bring a level of realism to the story that may not be well deserved. 

I remember loving Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, The way the stuff became real even when it was nothing like what really happened was both shocking and sad.  I not only cried when they died bravely in the movie, but also when I read other versions and realized they were just more robbers from that time period and that no one knew if  or how they died.

We are currently living in strange times, very strange, because each of us is able to experience a variation of every time and all times, every culture and all cultures that have ever existed.  We have so much more ability to understand and empathize with people living with different circumstances than we are.  We can see the humanity of people by watching love stories and family stories and loss stories of anyone, from cave men to subtitled movies of ancient warriors in distant lands, to stories of regular ordinary people living in big cities in poverty, or wealth, small towns in middleclass heaven or deeply isolated poor people in places not even populated enough to call rural.

First radio allowed us to hear people sing and musicians play, stories read, plays inacted and conversations blasted out at us.  Instead of thousand's of people  hearing a live performance of  someone or something when radio was new, hundreds of thousands could be listening now.

Then we developed the ability to record it, and the number of individuals goes up, not just to thousands at that time but to potentially billions over hundreds of years.  One performance could become a cultural keystone for generations. (Don't believe it--think Wizard of OZ, I've never met anyone that hasn't seen it--it came out in 1938)

When we add movies, cartoons even for all of us very visual learners, what at one moment, the advent of dinosaurs through fossil finds was amazing to a few dozen archeologists became a major fascination by children and oldsters alike when a coin was deposited into a crankable machine with cartoon dinosaurs--being ridden by little cave boys.  (maybe the next introduction to such a major find should be more accurate, but I'm not at all sure that carbon dating was available with those first bone, and there are still people that don't believe they were that long ago--their own world view doesn't allow for such an old world.)

Now, a person doesn't have to be in a war to know what happened.  Movies, with sound and dramatic story lines tell us about brave heroes and their loving girlfriends, separated--temporarily or permanently--by the war effort.  It's loud.  It's deadly.  It was relatively bloodless till the filmmakers in the 1970s had their way with directing and special effects.

Many wish that the blood and guts were not added.

Indeed, I think that maybe we all wish the blood and guts could be removed from real war.

Or remove war, from movies, from books, from life.  That would certainly be something but apparently our brains like to see action.  We like the noise, we like the gore, and we like the stories.

But we don't all process them as if they were real.  Is that us protecting ourselves?  Is it denial?  Is it a character flaw that many of us are incapable of seeing the horror that is occurring to those that are not ourselves and our families?  In a war movie, we cry when the sidekick is killed, or worse, the hero, but we watch as they kill dozens or even hundreds without once thinking--oh, those poor young men, those poor families...  The actual soldiers are not so sheltered from those thoughts.

Technology like the internet, now allows us to not just see the latest movies, but to google things; things made by major journalistic providers and things made by individuals.  We can see the local version and the version from across the sea.  We can listen to the words of people that think like we do and listen to the words of people that we were raised to automatically think we are wrong.

If it isn't in our native tongue, we can find it subtitled, or hit the button for translate.

We now have the ability to live in every time-in every country, in every culture--vicariously.

I know that vicarious is not quite the same as live, but neither is memory.  Yet we value our memories and learn from them.  Sometimes we learn from our own saved memories decades after the original event occurred that was stored in our little organic brains.

I can remember things that meant little or nothing at the time, and find that suddenly I learned something--as if my brain stored that information until I was ready to grasp the implications.  I can't begin to tell you how many times I've pulled some trivial nugget from childhood out and turned it into the solution to a problem--then had to thank a long dead relative or long our of touch friend for having shared that nugget.

The secret to happiness is to remain present.  But I think few of us can pretend that we are only influenced by the present. We live in the present, and hopefully do so mindfully, but our memories have influence.  And books and movies and news articles and odd internet searches end up in our memories.

I have my memories when I am alone.  And I have access to all the knowledge and emotion and beauty and compassion the world has ever known--either as an already present memory or as a potential memory just waiting to be searched for, examined and stored.

Technology and memory gives me face of Martin Luther King as he made his "dream" speech.  And it gives me movies and newsreels if I want to try to understand war.  It gives me interviews of people that experienced things I never did and never could and in truth would never want to.

So why aren't we all more empathetic and compassionate?

Are we desensitized to the ugliness and the beauty equally?

Are we becoming like the spoiled children that are sick of unwrapping Christmas gifts and grab an empty box and play in it or start tearing up our new toys?

There is an uncertainty about who we are when we can experience so many stories, when we can see so many other stories that are nothing like our own.

There is something very safe and comfortable about certainty--call it faith if you prefer.  Faith that your religion is the only right one.  Faith that you morals are right and your world view is right and your family is the right kind of family.

All the available information out there places all that faith in our own rightness in a funny light.  Questions our "only us" beliefs.  Throws mud at our heroes and shows the one-way-cat-skinner a thousand other ways.

Leaders want to censor what children can see--not just smut and violence but comparative religion and multicultural exploration.  We want OUR children to carry forward OUR culture and OUR beliefs.  We aren't satisfied with them carrying forward our gene pool.  And they never ask themselves--did my parents want me to stay on the farm?  carry on the family business?  join the little church in the vale where generations had attended.

A little funny, really.  A nation full of technology, massive information available, filled with 324 million people, only 5 million of whom are indigenous, trying to maintain ties with thousands of places and times.  And 80 percent of those people's ancestors chose to come here.

They chose to change.

They decided that, for what ever reason, where they were born was NOT the right place and NOT the right way to live.

So here we are, living together but separately with promises of Rights.

Rights to live the way we think is right----as long as it doesn't interfere with anyone else's Right to live the way they think is right.

So, learn, empathize, imagine being one of those bit players in a movie or imagine being the parents or child of our newest supervillain criminal.  Imagine being an elephant in the Serengeti or a dinosaur born 62,999,999 years ago.  Imagine what they world will be like in 5 years or what it was like 10 years before you were born.

Make a meal without using any technology more modern than a Viking or a caveman.
Dress like a pirate or a Polynesian in 1402.
Teach yourself to read ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics or Sanskrit or modern Japanese.
Compare art from Asia, Africa, the Middle East, Europe and South America in 1200 CE.

And about being right---everyone thinks they are right.  No one (over the age of 20) tells themselves,  I'm going to choose the wrong way to live.

There really are an infinite number of ways to live, and as long as you don't steal anyone elses RIGHTS, they are all right.


Thursday, August 17, 2017

Still? Again?

A myth is defined as a usually traditional story of ostensibly historical events that serves to unfold part of the world view of a people or explain a practice, belief, or natural phenomenon

Men Think About Sex Every Seven Seconds

“Due to unilateral development resulting from Olympic style canoeing, women’s bodies (e.g., reproductive organs) would be damaged, potentially causing infertility, stunting feminine development, or causing lopsided development.”

Women's empowerment comes at the expense of men

girls can't do math or science

women crack under pressure

women are the fairer sex

women love weddings

women are best suited to monogamy

it's a mans world

she asked for it

women are gold diggers

women can't be trusted with money

women can't lead

a woman's health is not a man's concern

women belong in marriage not school

a woman's place is in the home

weight gain is inevitable as you age

everyone loses brain power (cognitive ability) as they age

how you age is all genetically determined

Fingernails and hair keep growing after death

black people are lazy
black people are athletic--its that extra bone in their leg
black people have great voices
black people have rhythm
black people love chicken and watermelon

Sugar makes your kids crazy

Lightning never strikes the same place twice

Eating watermelon seeds will give you an appendicitis


HUMANS USE ONLY 10 PERCENT OF THEIR BRAIN

“LEFT BRAIN” and “RIGHT BRAIN” PEOPLE DIFFER

YOU MUST SPEAK ONE LANGUAGE BEFORE LEARNING ANOTHER

BRAINS OF MALES AND FEMALES DIFFER IN WAYS THAT DICTATE LEARNING ABILITIES

EACH CHILD HAS A PARTICULAR LEARNING STYLE

You should drink 8 glasses of water every day

Dropping a penny from the Empire State Building would kill someone

Chewing gum will stay in your stomach for 7 years

Cracking your knuckles leads to arthritis

http://www.history.com/news/history-lists/5-myths-about-slavery

For nearly a century following the end of Reconstruction, many Americans grew comfortable with a certain fantasy version of the antebellum South, blessed with blushing belles, kindly planters—and happy slaves.

There were Irish slaves in the American colonies

The South seceded from the Union over the issue of states’ rights, not slavery

Only a small percentage of Southerners owned slaves

The Union went to war to end slavery

Black soldiers—slave and free—fought for the Confederacy.

We can't removed memorials to confederate soldiers--that is history.

If remove confederate memorials, we have to removed the other slave owners memorials.

We can't rename schools--those names are important to who we are as a country.

We can't rename mascots--that has always been the mascot, we are honoring the people represented by the mascot.

We love our myths.  They help us live with ourselves when we see injustice, have ethical dilemmas and benefit from keeping things the way they are.

We might not be very nice.

We might like lying to ourselves to keep from having to do the right thing.

I love mythology.  I love stories that tell me something while actually telling me about something much bigger--like Persiphone and Hades for explaining winter, like Isis losing her Osiris.

I do not like myths born of ignorance and self-deception for personal gain.

It is obvious, from the things going on in the world, that the USA is not the only country going through strange times.

I think maybe it is time for us to examine the stories we tell to explain how its ok to treat some people worse than others.
I think maybe it is time for us to start looking in the mirror to see if we are the problem that is growing in the world.
I talk to people, good people, people that seem to have their feces in a contained pile, and realize that most of them are avoiding talking about those things that are wrong.
They aren't alone.
We don't want to get fired.
We don't want to start an argument.
We don't want to ruin our peace or destroy our own zen or rock the boat.

But tell me, who is going to speak truth.
Who is going to stand for those that are powerless.
Who is going to risk losing some of their own creature comforts to ensure that everyone gets a fair shake.
We are not in a new place.
We could be in a new place.
But here we are.
Still.
Again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PivWY9wn5ps

Sunday, August 13, 2017

Thinking about our own beliefs on poverty.

I read this article in a mailer called Worldextra.  It's basically a advertising flyer with a couple of articles thrown in.  It was sited as "the Washington post".

A search of the site for the Washington Post never found anything like it.

Since I can't site it or link it, I'm going to paraphrase it or even copy it word for word.  Not because I think it is fake but because, where ever it came from, it made me think, so might make someone else think also.

("Which is generally more often to blame if a person is poor: lack of effort on their own part, or difficult circumstances beyond their control?
The Washington Post and the Kaiser family foundation asked 1,686 American adults to answer that question--and found that religion is a significant predictor of how Americans perceive poverty.
Christians are much more likely than non-Christians to view poverty as the result of individual failings, especially white evangelical Christians.
There's a strong Christian impulse to understand poverty as deeply rooted in morality--often, as the Bible makes clear, in unwillingness to work, in bad financial decisions or in broken family structures, said Albert Mohler, president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.  The Christian worldview is saying that all poverty is due to sin, though that doesn't necessarily mean the sin of the person in poverty.  In the Garden of Eden, there would have been no poverty.  In a fallen world, there is poverty.
In the poll, 46 percent of all Christians said that a lack of effort is generally to blame for a person's poverty, compared with 29 percent of all non-Christians.
The gulf widens further among specific Christian groups: 53 percent of white evangelical Protestants blamed lack of effort while 41 percent blamed circumstances, and 50 percent of Catholics blamed lack of effort while 45 percent blamed circumstances.  In contrast, by more than 2 to 1, Americans who are atheist, agnostic or have no particular affiliation said difficult circumstances are more to blame when a person is poor than lack of effort (65 percent to 31 percent).
The question is, of course, not just an ethical one but a political one, and the partisan divide is sharp:  Among Democrats, 26 blamed a lack of effort and 72 percent blamed circumstances.  Among Republicans, 63 percent blamed lack of effort and 32 percent blamed circumstances.
A statistical analysis of the data showed that political partisanship is the most important factor in views on the causes of poverty, but religious identity stands out as one of several important demographic factors.
Theologians point to passages in the New testament that shape Christian's views on poverty, from the verse in Thessalonians that says the one who is unwilling to work shall not eat, to Jesus's exhortations to care for the needy people including those who are sick and in prisons, to the many interpretation of his statement quoted in Matthew, Mark and John, the poor you will always have with you. (the rest of that had to do with Mary Magdalene rubbing expensive unguent on his feet--I added the part in parentheses).") (that was all a transcription of the article as written)

So think about that a minute or two.  See how many of those statements are true in your life and belief system.  See if any of those beliefs were made a part of your early upbringing.

Now, let me introduce you to John. (I made up the name, due to its lack of cultural and racial identification)

John is a 24 year old male that is currently sofa-surfing with his friends.  He is working as wait-staff at a chain restaurant that most of us have visited at least once.  He lives in a city with poor walkability and a limited public transportation system but has a decent bike.  He finished high school with  average grades.  He played basketball and ran track and while he was not horrible, he was no star.  He is 5'9" tall, which is about average and of average build.  He works 2 jobs and gets about 45 hours a week.  He takes home about 1500 a month.

John was raised by a single mother--Sarah.  She raised him in section 8 housing.  She could barely read and thought he was doing great because he never got in trouble at school or with the law.  She spent her life on permanent disability for having been born with cerebral palsy and having an IQ of 75. 
John didn't like bringing his friends home and avoided trouble because he didn't want people treating his mother badly.  She died when he was 19 after a seizure.

John's mother Sarah was raised in group homes after her mother--Margaret-- died of an overdose.  Her mother was 17 when she died.  Margaret had been in foster care since her own parents had died in a car wreck when she was 8.  At thirteen Margaret was impregnated by her foster father thus giving birth to Sarah.  Sarah was born early and without prenatal care.  Her disability occurred during the home birth.  Because of the complications, the 2 ended up in a hospital and a social worker was involved.  She was then, due to a quirk of the law, able to obtain  legal emancipation--because motherhood makes you an adult.  The social worker helped her obtain housing after offering adoption for the baby--which she declined--as far as she knew, this was the only person on earth related to her by blood.

In her new home, she soon discovered that in addition to molesting foster fathers there were raping neighbors and folks that would watch her baby while she made a little money over her check--by selling sexual favors.  Getting paid for doing what she had been forced to do seemed a better deal.  Some of them paid in drugs instead of cash.

Margaret  loved her daughter and she loved her heroin--her little way of escaping.  Her life was all about both.

When Sarah was 4, she was found wondering in the courtyard of the apartments they lived in.  Her mother had overdosed sometime in the previous 3 days.  It had taken her several days to figure out how to get the door open with her poor motor skills.

Sarah, because of her disability, spent the next 14 years in a group home with other children with disabilities.  In there, she was amazingly intact.  She finished high school but had a hard time reading and because she had always been on disability, it continued.  No one had every expected anything else.

At 18, Sarah was allowed to get her own place as she was able to take care of her own grooming, cooking and eating, and could walk safely with only a mildly stiff gait.  She could also read at a 3rd grade level, so a case worker maintained her rent and utilities, and gave her an allowance for food and clothes.  On her own, once again in a giant section 8 housing complex, Sarah met people without disabilities.  She also met people that didn't recognize her as disabled.  She discovered fun, parties, and love.

Sarah had John when she was 23.  She adored him.  She stopped the fun and parties.  By 5 he was helping her with remembering her medication.  By 8 he helped with grocery shopping, lists, read her his books, and told her about what he learned in school.  They could read the same books equally well.  By 12, his school work was a mystery to her.

At 16 he started working in food service.  His grades, always good enough by his mother's standards, started slipping when he spent more time at work and no time on school work.

His graduation was her proudest moment.

After high school, he worked more and sometimes hung out with friends.  He spent less time making sure his mother was taking her seizure medicine like she should, so when he came home to find her down and call the ambulance, "a seizure did it" they said at the Emergency Room, no one pointed a finger at him--except himself.  A nice little packet of guilt to add to his life.

John is not likely to change his lifestyle.  Maybe he will meet and marry a woman with more lifeskills--more likely he will meet and lose her as she gets tired of trying to teach him how to be successful.  Or maybe his packet of guilt will start requiring drugs or alcohol to let him sleep at night--maybe it already is.

This is how people get into poverty.

Now, here are the questions I want you to answer for yourself:
1. Is this all John's fault?  Should he have worked harder?  Should he have done something different?
and why would that have happened?
2.  Is this all Sarah's fault?  Was she being punished for her very birth?
3.  Is this all Margaret's fault?
4.  Maybe we should blame Margaret's parents for having a child then dying without her in the car to die with them

So, are you now asking--why didn't someone intervene????
How?
By sterilizing Sarah against her will? 
By aborting Margaret's pregnancy against her will? 
By Taking John from Sarah and having him adopted by more capable parents? 
All of these people could have used better opportunities, not more punishment.

If you are now thinking--OMG, that is a terrible story.  No one has every really had such a horrible life.
Wrong.
Social Workers, Nurses and Teachers hear these stories all the time---unless they have developed the coping skill of "don't ask and don't let them tell" to keep their own sanity.

Now, to see how you are handling this, with these very Anglo-saxon names:  try calling them Whitney, Shameka, and Tyrell, or Maria, Angela and Juan, or maybe Imani, Dalelah and Mohammed?

Does that change anything?

How about if  Margaret's parents were immigrants?  Undocumented immigrants?

My own parent's were quite conflicted about their feeling about poor people.

I witnessed them taking people clothes or food--not as part of a group but on an individual basis repeatedly in my childhood.  My father would fix things free of charge or find them some needed appliance or furniture if they desperately needed it.

My mother would make someone clothes or send them vegetables from the garden.

And both of them would complain about poor people being lazy, stupid, and "ought to be sterilized".

I've seen pictures that made it obvious that sometimes they were pretty darn poor themselves.  At those times, if they had been sterilized, my sister and I would not have been born.  They were doing OK--never great but OK when we were born.

I've seen teacher's trying hard to fight poverty from the classroom and then give up--because there is a level of stress; of hunger or horror or fear in which the only thing on a person's mind is to escape from the hunger or horror or fear.

When you tell a 12 year old that he  needs  to learn about how the planets revolve around the sun and he hasn't eaten since last Friday and he got chased out of his hidey hole in the park where he  was sleeping; when the father that shot the mother is rumored to be getting out, when you know you needed to do your homework but you are in the bathroom trying to wash the smell of dirty diapers out of your one dress so you don't get made fun of, suddenly that well dressed person at the front of the room just seems like a clueless fool.
We can't just treat people living in poverty like middle class students.  All that stuff about inaccurate testing due to culture bias--so  then we change the names to more ethnic names and put some of the math stories in the 'hood--that is not getting rid of the bias.  Living in poverty has a whole other skill set for survival.  Sure, poor kids want the same toys that are advertised on the TV as the rest of the kids sitting in front of a TV.  But they also have frequently never had a meal that included fresh produce.  They may or may not ever have meat that isn't processed.  They may not have soap or toothpaste or a toothbrush.

And while we can't teach away poverty until we stop the fight or flight level response to living in it,  we have long had the ability to stop people from living in that level of poverty.
Poverty is caused by a lack of resources.  When I was little and people talked about "eat your food, children in china are starving" even I knew that me gorging myself did nothing for those starving children.
When we sent food to Bangladesh and Ethiopia, thinking we were feeding poor people, it never dawned on us that there was food, but they couldn't afford it, and the food we sent went to the government who then charged people for it, so those without money still starved. 
But there are countries that have found ways to stop poverty.  They have figured out ways to make everyone have the ability to have adequate healthy food sources and safe housing and resources for illness both acute and chronic. 
There are places that recognize poverty as--not the moral ineptitude of the poor but the moral corruption of the culture itself. 
Someone will always be poorer than average.  Someone will always have more than they need.  But no one needs to live in constant want with fear and hopelessness.  We--all of us in this country-- and in this world--can do better than that.

Or, we can keep repeating--"the poor you will always have with you." and just ignore the fact that poor is a relative thing and doesn't have to mean hopelessly left behind.  (while secretly thinking, they deserve it, they deserve it and I don't so I'm better than them)

Eliminating poverty would make all of us better.




Monday, July 24, 2017

back when we were all the same

Back when; when I was a child, when my parents were young, when my neighborhood had children in every house but all the dogs were yard dogs and no one liked cats, we were all the same. 

We lived in a place where mothers stayed home and cleaned house and reared (never raised--you raise sheep or cows or potatoes) children and watched daytime soap operas.  Fathers came home every evening to a clean house with a homemade meal on the table, maybe a beer or a martini first and afterward, wife did the dishes while hubby watched TV and kids prepared for bed.

We all went on a 2 week vacation every year.  Had a car for the family to make that trip and the weekly shopping trip and the kids either walked to school or rode the bus.  Every house had a metal swingset in the backyard and a sandbox.  The front yard had flowerbeds and a birdbath.  And everyone was at church on Sunday morning.

It was great!

But it was never real.

It's as if we averaged all those people in the neighborhood and then pretended it was the truth, the reality.  It was our shared fiction.

And we never looked outside the neighborhood.  And the Whole World was the United States.  Everyplace else was just a story, a fictional story, no more real than the stories about cave men or the stories about the crusades or vampires.  None of that existed in our world except through TV.  Which was only slightly more real than a good story book--or a bad story book.

When I was 7, the TV news told us some man that was a communist had shot our president--we all cried; our whole second grade class--and the buses took us home early, and we were off the next day or week or some strange length of time and watched his riderless horse walk down the street while wondering why he had a horse instead of a car--and cried again--poor lonely horse.  And we vowed to never be communists that shoot presidents.

When the TV news showed race riots--suddenly these people of another race were in our country  that had never been there before and  they were trying to kill people for no reason.  We had no people of other races in our world until then--all our books showed that--all our tv shows showed that.  We were concerned.  We were scared.  Would those people of other races come to our neighborhoods and kill us, too?

When the TV showed riots on college campuses about the Vietnam war, we were confused.  Our soldiers were heroes, saving people from communism, protecting us all from---something.

When the TV told us Martin Luther King was shot, we didn't know what to think.  Our parents didn't like him.  They wanted him to be quiet.  They wanted him to go away--back to Africa or somewhere, but now they were even more worried about race riots.  The fathers got their old and unused guns out and cleaned them and bought ammo.

When the TV news said the dead president's little brother, who also wanted to be president, had been shot, our families were a little shocked but not actually sad.  "That family is cursed," they said. But their pick for president was fine, so our world was fine.  Yea President Nixon!

When the TV news told us about Watergate, our fine president was in trouble.  Something to do with a hotel.  That was in his second term.  In his first term, he focused on ending the Vietnam War--so that ended the war protests, and then focused on rescuing the environment from pollution and improving race relations.  He was a Republican--apparently pollution was real to republicans back then.  He also worked on ending the cold-war  which was something none of us really understood-but how could you not hate communists--they were not like us and they were bad and evil.

The TV said he resigned rather than be impeached for supposedly paying a burglar $114,000 to bug the Democratic National Committee in order to win re-election.  They weren't going to impeach him for that, but rather for hindering the investigation.  I forget what they called that.  His Vice-president had already resigned before that for income tax violations and taking bribes, so, before President Nixon resigned, he had picked Gerald Ford to be the replacement for the vice-president, therefore also becoming the next president.  I don't think that had ever happened before.

President Ford was the last President of my childhood.  He was not reelected.  I remember him tripping and playing golf but not much else.  I don't know if that made him a bad president or a great president.

I got to vote in the next election due to the ratification of the 26th Amendment.  My parents and I squabbled about it a bit--they thought 18 year olds were too young to vote, that 21 year olds were also to young to vote.  I sided with the idea that if you could fight and die in a war you were old enough to vote and drink.  Hopefully in that order.  (they still don't get to drink around here)

I think I voted for Ford.  I was still thinking that religion and politics were genetic or at least hereditary.  It was not an informed vote, but my parents approved.

Jimmy Carter won.  He was a farmer, but since he raised peanuts and not cattle and wheat, or pigs and tobacco, my family was not impressed.  My future spouse loved him though.  Regularly referred to him as the greatest president since Lincoln.  Looking back, it was probably the truest thing he ever said.

Then we had Reagan.  I loved "Death Valley Days", my parents loved "Death Valley Days",  If he wasn't IKE, and they really liked IKE, he was good enough.  When he left office, I'd been a nurse long enough to know that he had a problem long before his presidency ended. (seeing we had no system to protect us from someone that is no longer fully cognizant leading the country was an eye-opener.)

My mother, who had been a registered democrat since age 21 changed to republican that year at the same time I changed to democrat.  I would have registered independent, but then couldn't have voted in the primaries.

Then came Bush, then Clinton, then Bush again, each one disappointing in different ways. I voted for 3rd party candidates or sat it out each of those 6 elections.  I was busy.  I had no idea what they were doing.  Looking back on history form this time--I REEEAAALLLY had no idea what was going on.

Then Obama ran.  The final Bush was so grammatically embarrassing and had thrown us into that stupid Iraq war and I started paying attention again, more, really paying attention.

I did not love everything Obama did.
I did not hate everything Obama did.

Reality is, in 8 years, neither of his daughters made the news for drunkeness,  or went to rehab, or got arrested.  There were not stories about him starting a war to pay back the ruler that messed with his father.  He did not change the judicial system from directly related to the population to logarithmically related to the population, and he did not send our troups to the middle east for oil. He gave us healthcare--not the universal healthcare I wanted, but closer than anyone since 1880's had done.  And he made all those people that had always been here--that I thought didn't exist when I was 7--very happy. He made them real, made them matter, gave them hope.  He gave a lot of other people hope also.

Obama was a very moderate democrat and was demonized by soooo many as if he was some left wing crazy.

I was a Bernie supporter last election.  He wasn't left enough but the closest I'd ever seen at the national level.  A part of me thinks, if all the folks still thinking that everyone is the same in their world would wake up, things would have gone differently.

Now, NOW we have a man that sees himself as another Ronald Reagan.  Some one should explain the difference between the magic of the silver screen and the TV version of the national enquirer--reality TV.

I voted.  Not for our current president.  And I doubt anyone will ever refer to him as the greatest president since Lincoln. 

I must admit, if he must be compared, it would be to Andrew Jackson.

Back when Andrew Jackson was keeping slavery alive and profiting from that and political power--we weren't all the same either.

Be different, and be aware that different is not wrong or bad or in any way negative.

And, don't get so busy you lose track of what is going on around you.

Sometimes you wake up in an alternate reality.


Tuesday, July 4, 2017

warrior women

We currently are in the midst of a time in which many are waking up to the way that culture, roles and beliefs create the meaning of our lives and control the direction our lives take. 

There have always been cultural beliefs that cripple people, and even kill people.  If you can't think of any, think of albinoism in a place that considers albino body parts lucky but albino lives useless. 

Think of female genital mutilation to make a woman clean enough for marriage and prevent her from wanting sex, but that also makes childbirth dangerous. 

Think of little girls with their feet bound so that they must be carried from chair to bed their whole lives--the perfect little princess, crippled by her place in society. 

But there is more evidence of this than just physical crippling., In America, women were not taught to read or write unless their family was both wealthy AND thought it important.  Poor girls did not go to school in many places until after the civil war--at all.  That was not their place--that was not their purpose.  We are not so far from the old "keep um barefoot and pregnant" advice that used to be given to sons.

There were/are times in which adulterous women were stoned.

Victorian America enjoyed clitorectomies to prevent masturbation and "high-natured" women from wandering outside their vows.

While there are a multitude of ways in which women have been controlled and punished and crippled, and we recognize those still going on in other cultures and religions,  we are blind to our own cultural input into how women are.  (If shaved legs, plucked brows, liposuction, implants, nose jobs, and monthly exposure to chemicals in the name of feminine beauty isn't cultural--I don't know what is?)

Our current, insidious, mental crippling of women is not well recognized by most.  They offer to teach their son to use the lawn mower and their daughter to clean the bathroom.  We note how pretty and proper little Betty Jo is while bragging on Sam's muscles and strength and intelligence---even when he "is just acting like a boy, i.e., tearing up the yard, back-talking his teacher or vandalizing the neighbor's garden.  When they get dressed up, the boys are expected to go play and roughhouse, the girls, in dresses need to be careful not to show their underwear or break their new and delicate sandals.  We now buy them both legos, but his are primary colors to build space ships and buildings, hers are pastel and come with lots of people and flowers and pets.

We question the sexual orientation of girls in science, girls in sports, girls that drive trucks. 

We want them to figuratively, cover their heads and not follow dreams that are too lofty for girls.

And we do it while bragging on their beauty, their artistic ability, their cooking skill, their poetic nature, and great communication skills.

I love the beauty of women, the artistic and crafty, the well made meal, flowing word craft and long talks full of emotion and ideas.

I also love power tools and astronomy and geology and chemistry.

I will not say I am more or less feminine due to either of those loves.  Our interests do not need gender identification or sexual identity.

There is so very much more to us--male us, female us, people, girls and boys, men and women--than our gender.

There is a long tradition of the triune goddess.  Maiden, Mother, Crone.  But I think, before someone had there way with tradition, trying to make woman less "manly" , trying to soften away her power, there was a fourth.  I think the warrior woman is as basic to the female version of god as the other three.

There have always been warrior woman, from Harriet Tubman, Joan of Arc, Anne Bonny, Gruine  O'Malley, Maya Angelou, Rosa Parks, Ruth Bader Ginsberg, Charlote Perkins Gulman, to most of our mothers and grandmothers and selves, each a version of a warrior, that fight their fights and struggle for improvements in society and and communities like she-bears, like lionesses, like---women with a cause, a reason, a project that needs to be conquered.  Every female that has rejected her place in society, that has loved a profession that is seen as manly, that has battled for her loved ones and fought for her right to be herself, is familiar with the importance of her own warrior self.

But why do we limit one half of society while empowering the other?

What does that do, how does that work, why would anyone need that to continue?

Fear?

Insecurity?

A deep need to be the boss of the family?

A strangely twisted belief that makes women less--evil and dangerous?

Who cares---women are just people just as men are just people.

Let your inner warrior woman out every once in a while.  You don't have to kill anyone or even take up roller derby---but flexing those muscles occasionally will make you remember your own power.

And it might help you to tackle that next big chore--running for the senate, running a business, running a chain saw--whatever.

You can do it.




How Propaganda Works.

/https://www.patriotbeacon.com/2017/06/budweiser-stuns-nation-releases-4th-july-ad-conservatives-awe/

The above link is to a Facebook post that is being shared this fine 4th of July.

It's about a beautiful advertisement by Budweiser about helping veterans.

It involves a famous veteran.

There is nothing wrong with this ad.

The article is from Breitbart.  Here is the first paragraph.

"Since the world of Hollywood is so liberal these days, it’s rare that a brand takes a stand for veterans of the military. That’s why it came as a welcome surprise this week when Budweiser released an ad for the Fourth of July that honors veterans of the U.S. military."

This implies that advertisements are anti-veteran.

So I'm hunting for advertisements about veterans.

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=advertisements+about+veterans&id=95934FEE8F6913E03BD1D9D0C4AC495E681EC30C&FORM=IQFRBA

There were tons of positive advertisements about veterans, open the link and look at them.  they go back to WWI and continue to the present.  Advertisers love Veterans, veterans are as American as apple pie and the 4th of July.

Now for negative liberal advertisements that are about veterans.

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=negative%20liberal%20advertisements%20about%20veterans&qs=n&form=QBIR&sp=-1&pq=negative%20liberal%20advertisements%20about%20veterans&sc=0-46&sk=&cvid=2A0BBC2309BF4CE6B87D5321B43EF38D

There are lots of them also--there are even some that might be anti-veteran and pro-liberal--all from other countries about their own liberal parties. 

There are also a crapload of anti-liberal advertisements from our own country.

Not one anti-veteran from a liberal source in the United States.

So I challenge you to find a single advertisement with a liberal source that is anti-veteran.  Find it.  Add it to the comments.

Why?  Because this is how propaganda works--it takes something everyday and spins it so that it villanizes the other group. 

It takes something that is true, that tugs at the heart-strings and hooks something to it that is untrue and aims it at their own "enemy".

Be conservative.
Be liberal.
Be one of the new independents that don't want a group telling them what is right and what is wrong.

But don't accept lies.  Be a truth-seeker.  Be a truth-spreader.  Be a fact-checker. 

On the internet, in social media--stopping and checking those things that inflame your sense of wrongness and make you want to hate someone is a first step. 

Few things in life are just one-sided.  If a story is not balanced with two sides and doesn't let you know how to find the basis of the horrible claims they make--it might just be pure propaganda.

Propaganda--information, especially of a biased or misleading nature, used to promote or publicize a particular political cause or point of view.

And don't forget the challenge--to find a single advertisement that is anti-veteran and that is from a liberal propaganda engine.

(since demonizing our own sons and daughters, our young heroes, is never going to make anyone a fan, the very idea of this is preposterous--but prove me wrong and prove Breitbart to be an honest source of news--not just propaganda)

Saturday, July 1, 2017

Make America Good!

Make America Great again Good !

I don't want to hear any more about making America GREAT! again. 

Tony the Tiger can keep his "great" line and the Trump campaign be hanged.

I want to hear about making this country good. 
Not again.  Not for the 2nd time or 4rd time.  Not like it used to be

Not "good" like less than "great" but better than so-so."

"Good" like "goodness" and "kindness" and filled with beautiful souls.

I'm talking about taking this country into a place no country has been before.

We don't have to change much as far as the rhetoric: 
People all being equal, fairly treated, equal opportunity, equal justice under the law, power divided evenly--one person--one vote, no limitations except for our own ability to dream, explore, and create. 

The patriotic ideals that we all heard and loved were not the problem.  Those were all great---they just didn't exist for many of the people in this country.  They definitely never existed for all the people all the time.

Ideals can not just be words. 

Words represent  ideals, but the ideal must be more than scribbles on a piece of paper or sounds coming out of someone's mouth.

They are things--like people are things and rocks are things and all the words in the world can not fully describe a person or  even a single rock.
Like goals are things and dreams are things  but the words we use to delineate them  can lack their emotional tone and shades of wonder and strange and oddly shaded nuances.

While these ideals for our new and good country do not have to already exist in complete form, they must be based on something or someone and the traits and characteristics must be seen as attainable and sustainable and---good by everyone that cares about goodness. 

But what is seen as good by everyone?

Is it like Porn--I'll know it when I see it?

Is it like chocolate--almost universally loved and enjoyed?

Or is it more like those universal truths that each religion, philosophy and moral code teaches its own children in an attempt to make both better people and a better world.

Can we make the world better by legislation?, by laws, programs and focused projects?

Can we make the world better by punishing everyone that is not "good".

Can we make the world "good" by removing everyone and everything that is "not only or always good"?

Does "good" have to be actively "good"? or can it be passive goodness--hurt no one and nothing and be good by virtue of inaction?

Is good the opposite of bad or merely the absence of good.

Are people "good".

Are things "good".

Are goals "good," are plans "good," are programs "good"?

Is good the same for everyone?

Does a good 40 year old man need to act the same as a good 12 year old  girl?

Can a  rich person and a poor person both be the same kind of good?

Can we measure goodness?

Maybe, good is too lofty an ideal.
But what better goal than one that is lofty.

To make a "good" country, we need a place in which everyone has the opportunity to be their best self.  
How do we make a more level playing field.
The child born with access to money, love, education, nutritious food, a feeling of safety most of the time (scary movies--can't control those scary movies) and opportunities to explore the environment, be exposed to varied information and play both alone and with other children has a great chance at being a "good" person, of doing "good" things, and of helping the next generation have the same.

A child without access to any one or all of those,  risks want--lack--and the very real possibility of seeing the world as a dangerous, competitive place where everything must be fought for and where their own position in the world is always in danger of being made even worse. 

In an unsafe, ungood world, other people hurt you, they take your opportunities, they decrease your food supply, they make it where you feel you can't trust other people because they want what you want and their isn't enough for both of you. 

To increase their own chance of-- not goodness--but success, they guide competitors away from those things they themselves see as their opportunity for their future.  They tell lies, give bad advice and otherwise push their own "friends" away from success..

Perhaps the first step in making a "good" country, is getting rid of some of that sense of fear, want and competition. 

Good education for all in whatever the individual shows an interest in.

Good healthcare for all so that no one is pushed out of the goodness by illness or injury of mind, body, or spirit.

Good water for all.
Good nutritious food for all.

Good, safe places to live for all.

Good paying jobs for all that want to work.

Good access to transportation.

Good parks, wildlife preserves and libraries, museums, recreational areas, and art exploration facilities that all can access, enter, and enjoy at their leisure.

Good music access for all types of musicians playing all kinds of music.

and good people, caring people, people that just want to live and let live, learn a little, see a little, share a little and leave something for their own descendants to also enjoy when their time arrives.

Is that too much?

Or is that "good".





About making the promises real for all.
About the importance of transparency.

Sunday, June 11, 2017

death and dying in the 22nd century

In 1969, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross wrote a book on death and dying.  I had to read it for nursing school a few years later.  People still use her steps of grief and read her book.

This is not about her book.  It was a good book; a valuable book. 

But, this is about death and dying now.

So let's get some context--because this is not a short trip--its a journey. 

In the early nineteenth century, and for more than a century to come, most Americans gave birth and endured illness and even surgery at home.  They mostly died at home.  They belonged to a largely rural society, and few among them would ever have occasion to visit a hospital. Hospitals in the United States emerged from institutions, notably almshouses  (the proverbial poorhouse we were all supposed to avoid through hard work), that provided care and custody for the ailing poor. Rooted in this tradition of charity, the public hospital traces its ancestry to the development of cities and community efforts to shelter and care for the chronically ill, deprived, and disabled. A six-bed ward founded in 1736 in the New York City Almshouse became, over the course of a century and more, Bellevue Hospital. The predecessor of Charity Hospital in New Orleans opened its doors the same year. Today’s Regional Medical Center in Memphis, the oldest hospital in Tennessee, was founded in 1829. Similar origins exist for other public hospitals—places where the “care of strangers” grew from modest origins into multifaceted municipal institutions.

During the Civil War, the first versions of health insurance came about.  Everyone couldn't afford it and there weren't many hospitals.  But war frequently causes strange change.

In 1883, the first European nation developed the precursor of a social medicine system as a safety net hospital system that later became their universal healthcare system.

The United states has been working on that since that same time--but with no results.  In the United States, we now have at least 245 healthcare systems and an a smattering of rural and urban unaffiliated hospitals---all competing with each other for the patient dollars.  (no one is competing for the opportunity to care for the individuals without patient dollars, if it wasn't for EMTALA they would mostly be out of luck.)

https://essentialhospitals.org/about-americas-essential-hospitals/history-of-public-hospitals-in-the-united-states/

The unregulated Wall Street business world, shades of the ever popular Laissez Faire  (abstention by governments from interfering in the workings of the free market  which has been altered slightly--we don't interfere with much they do and then we subsidize and bail them out when they take us down the toilet--I know a few smalltime business people that would appreciate that type of interference--but they are not wealthy enough to buy their own congressman) led to the 1928 fall--for years I assumed fall was referring to the rich folks suddenly made poor that jumped off the tall buildings.  (who can explain the oddities of children's minds)

The social security program began with the Social Security Act of 1935, originally titled the Economic Security Act. The term Social Security was coined in the United States by activist Abraham Epstein, who led a group called the American Association for Social Security.  For the first time, older people without "means" or family could retire when they were no longer able to work.  This alone probably increased the life-expectancy of people tremendously, as working as a washer woman with heart failure at 72 was not likely to increase one's health.

We then had WWII, which created quite a few changes, including the reticent recognition that women had held the country together in the work field while the men were at war.  The depression was over.  Factories were busy.  People headed off the farms and into the cities.  Cities had hospitals.  WWII had made changes available in medical care---one benefit of war is always an increase of technology and knowledge from the sheer number of young people needing help in the field.  We now had penicillin, anesthesia that was better than whiskey and a rawhide strip, germ theory to prevent infection, and more regulations of what it meant to be a physician.  We had regulation of medications decreasing the number of alcohol or poison based syrups dispensed willy-nilly. And we had hospitals.  More hospitals.  Hospitals with emergency departments.  And for those with money or insurance, getting care at those facilities could prevent death from simple injuries and basic infections. 

People without money or insurance were not so fortunate--an abcessed tooth or a broken leg was as likely to kill you as not.  Back then, first aid and herbal medicine by the old herb person or vet was frequently as good as it got.

And no insurance company offered coverage to people over 65.  The actuary tables called that a bad risk.  Old people got sick, a lot, and died, often slowly.  They would either have to have money or die fast.

Medicare was created in 1965 when people over 65 found it virtually impossible to get private health insurance coverage, in one of those many attempts to create a universal healthcare system. Medicare has made access to health care a universal right for Americans once they reach age 65. This has helped improve the health and longevity of older Americans. 

Hospitals  were becoming the norm.  While very poor people and black people and native people and those early immigrants that are now called undocumented couldn't yet go to the hospital, the middle-class born of the 1950's could and did. 

By the 1980's, most people considered the Nursing home to be an expectation in later years instead of a horrible possibility (more poorhouse than retirement home--as it had been viewed previously).  Only those with experience with those fine facilities understood how many are actually still mostly poorhouse.  Private money paying for a Nursing Home always bought a better experience.

DRG's, created in the early 1980s, was an attempt to prevent the outrageous costs medicare was covering .  A huge number of egregious offenses by physicians, pharmacies and hospitals created the need.  Medicare stopped the previous cash payments and chickens and blackberry pies for that pneumonia treatment, appendectomy or broken leg and upped the number of preventative medicine procedures, and the number of questionably helpful procedures and visits in general.  Physicians became wealthy almost immediately after finishing school.  Pharmacists gained money--as did pharmaceutical companies, nursing pay went up, driven by supply and demand--now, making less than your average marketing rep, but more than most teachers below professors at college level.

https://www.bls.gov/oes/current/oes_nat.htm#29-0000

Healthcare was the number 2 employer in the country, topped only by government.

Home health and hospice appeared in response to Medicare changes and were seen by healthcare administrators as an opportunity to increase money that stopped flowing due to DRG's and new rules of participation--both directly aimed at those medicare dollars--and while neither are perfect, both can keep people at home where they want to be at least for a good while.

And, now here we are with the Affordable Care Act; with a watered down version of the type of universal coverage most other countries have AND about to vote in a piece of legislation--the American Health Care Act to replace it that will undo what the previous did, i.e., give more people coverage and give more people fuller coverage at a better price only to return us more closely to the frontier days when "only the rich will survive". 

The various laws, like EMTALA, which aim to prevent hospitals from turning away the critically ill and injured,  and laboring mothers due to lack of money is all poor people, undocumented people and people without access to coverage will have--take that away, and we can return our country to a much smaller size--life expectancy will go down.  Mother deaths will go back up.  Baby deaths will go back up.  And only those with money will survive past that first bad pneumonia, early cancerous tumor, diabetes or obstructive sleep apnea.

If Social Security and Medicare are altered or eliminated,  Average age of retirement will go up---way up, as in homeless when no longer able to work and dead if you get sick--unless you have kids that can afford another mouth to feed and have the room and time and inclination to deal with you.

Many of us have 401k's and IRA's and Roth's, there are other variants also, but they are tied to bonds or stocks or interest rates, and those are not without risk, ask the folks that lost their retirement in 2007-2009.  A few have pensions from their employer or annuities.  Bad things have been known to happen to those also.  Our future savings has become the target of embezzlers, hucksters, shoddy investment strategies and fees, more fees than a cell phone contract or cable TV.

I'm not here to recommend a return to the stuffed mattress of old---think about India's method of suddenly making the cash worthless and giving everyone a short period to trade it in--but you might want to pay attention, call a lawmaker, stay informed.  We, the people, need our Social Security and Medicare.  We would mostly love to join the rest of the civilized world with a good Universal healthcare plan. We need laws to protect us from the harshness of a world about only money.

And read the Kubler-Ross book--second hand copies are cheap.  It won't help with healthcare cost and retirement finance, but we should all know more about what to expect in any circumstance.



Sunday, June 4, 2017

Thumbing our nose at our children's future.

The Paris Agreement (French: Accord de Paris), or Paris climate accord and Paris climate agreement, is an agreement within the United Nations Framework Convention on Climate Change (UNFCCC) dealing with greenhouse gas emissions mitigation, adaptation and finance starting in the year 2020. The language of the agreement was negotiated by representatives of 196 parties at the 21st Conference of the Parties of the UNFCCC in Paris and adopted by consensus on 12 December 2015.[3][4] As of June 2017, 195 UNFCCC members have signed the agreement, 148 of which have ratified it.[


June 1, 2017, President Donald Trump, sometimes called "our so-called President", "The Donald" or the "Cheetoh", pulled the United States from the Accord.

His reasoning was-----no one knows his reasoning or if he reasons at all.  But he seems fixated on the very strange goals of 1. Fulfilling all his ridiculous campaign promises and 2. undoing everything the 44th president did--presumably because "he wasn't born here".  (and definitely not because he's a black man).

The 27% of voters that voted President Trump in (and he and HRC were a near tie, she had more popular votes, he had more electoral votes--and Russian tampering had nothing to do with that😜😜) are still his loyal and incredibly violent-prone fans.  They are cheering and trolling everywhere someone is moaning about the withdrawal from the Paris Accords.

The United States of America has joined Syria and Nicaragua in boycotting the future of the Planet.  Nicaragua said the deal didn't go far enough in protecting the climate. 
Syria--well, Syria is having a bad time right now--Civil War, refugees, they can hardly agree to anything.

But the US? 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_carbon_dioxide_emissions

We are second in Carbon Emissions, China is First.  But per capital, we are over 2 times everyone else.

The coal miners are mostly proud of the President. 
There are currently about 104,824 coal miners working 2,000 mines in the US.
The number of people employed in petroleum is much higher and much better compensated.
Many in oil have skills that translate more easily to other industries than the very specific coal mining work.

As of 2011, there were over 3.4 million green energy jobs in this country---and it is growing at about 50,000/year..

The thing that none of these people worried about their "job" and "way of life" seem to consider, is that
1.  Coal is nasty.  If I can choose between a soot covered electrical plant or having solar panels that actually help to lower my bill while not making black, choking smoke, I'm going solar.  If there is natural gas, wind turbines and solar panels plentifully providing my power, I'm not going to put in a coal burning stove for heat.  And my town is hopefully not going to continue with coal--same reason.

2.  Change is constant---perhaps the only constant.  If you have managed to avoid change your whole life--it's your turn.  Most of us have had multiple major life changes due to technology and culture.  The ability to adapt to change is what makes humans capable of survival in diverse circumstance.  Learn something new.  Be proactive--learn something new before the mine puts up a closed sign.

3.  It's not just coal.  We all seek out more efficient heating systems, cooling systems, refrigerators, cook stoves, light bulbs, cars, tools---not because we are trying to force people into greener pastures (pun intended) but because; my Prius saved me a crapload of money on gasoline, my energy-efficient appliances lowered my electric bill, etc, etc. 

4.  As soon as I can afford Solar panels, I'll get them, not because I'm out to kill non-renewable energy worker's jobs, but because I need to treat my resources with respect. 

5.  AND, climate change is happening.  I'm no science denier.  I'm not going to sit here with my head in the sand and run the planet into the ground and blame that on the end times.  If we make the end times, then that is truly on us.  If we rush to kill the human species in the name of Armageddon.  If we deny that humans have the free-will to alter anything by our choices, greed, technology, war weapons--that is not "God's Will".  That is just our willfulness. 

6.  If you truly don't believe in all this "Climate Change", "green technology" stuff, then
Stop buying all those bottles of water.  Stop the sunscreen.  Stop putting CO monitors in your house.  Stop the RADON monitors.  Stop with the mosquito repellant.  Stop buying organic. Pour your pills in the toilet.  Pour the leftover gasoline in the garden.  Oh, and stop sending your kids to school because you obviously place no value on education or science or making a better future.

Me?  I'm going to do what I think is right.  I'm going to err on the side of caution.  No one had to tell me not to take a giant dump in the kitchen because I cooked in there.  I knew that by the time I was potty trained.  So, I'm not going to poison my own environment, not for convenience and not so I can make a living.

As for the decision of #45. 

The Paris Accord doesn't even take full effect until 2020---if we don't give him two bites at the apple, #46 can cancel this latest bit of ridiculous campaign promise fulfillment. 

Thank God Obama didn't write the BILL of RIGHTS.









Monday, May 29, 2017

a non-profit world.

Imagine, if you will, (this is in Rod Serling's voice) a world in which money is nothing--where people spend their time, not money.

Imagining this is not easy. 

Jesus was disgusted by money-lenders in the temple during his short human life.  That tells me that the idea of money and profit already existed.  Lenders are all about the profit.  It's in their interest.
This doesn't really prove money lending is immoral, but it does prove humans have been profiting off the poor and unfortunate for a very long time.  No one borrows money unless they are desperate or not very aware of the foibles of borrowing.

In the beginning, people bartered. Bartering is the exchange of a good or service for another good or service.  Bartering was not all about profit.  It was about exchanging what I have by my efforts more than I need of, for those items I need but don't have--either don't know how to make it or can't grow it or kill it.   A great potter (but terrible weaver or incompetent hunter)  can exchange a cooking vessel for a blanket to stay warm or a dead rabbit for supper.

https://www.thoughtco.com/history-of-money-1992150

Money is anything that is commonly accepted by a group of people for the exchange of goods, services or resources. Every country has its own system of coins and paper money.    At one time, salt, shells, beads, and furs have been used as money.  They were items that were innately valuable to the people that traded in them.  Gemstones, precious metals, all metals have also been traded as currency.  So--still basically bartering. 

When Europeans started paying native people in trade beads and cloth in exchange for things the native people considered easy to come by, there developed profit in bartering.  Spices, perfumes, furs of exotic animals, artwork, craft items, all became more valuable when traded to people that did not have the ability to make them or the resources to obtain them.  Europeans were very good at bartering their cheap goods for expensive items.  And were also very good at colonizing an area that would allow them to turn the native people into unpaid workers and the resources into their own property. While feudal areas allowed that Might made Rich by virtue of providing protection from outsiders while taxing their peasantry and merchants--those first profiteers; and not allowing anyone that wasn't of noble or royal blood to own land, they made vassals of most everyone.
Capitalism replaced feudalism vs tribalism (a kind of small scale, socialism, communism with some often harsh rules and strange beliefs)  with the onset of world exploration by Europeans in search of riches and adventure.  Greed was the new morality of everyone, not just the hereditary leaders. 

But imagining a world without profit. 

That is hard.

I was raised to believe that if I worked hard my whole life I could be rich and successful. (it was always rich first, successful second, gives successful a very pointed meaning) 

I was raised on the marketing ploys of written, spoken and visual advertisements that promised me that owning the right clothes, make-up, car, food, toys, furniture would make becoming "rich and successful" closer to a reality.

I was told the right places to vacation, the right hobbies to enjoy, the right styles to decorate my home, and the books I and then my children should read to become rich and successful.

I expected cigarettes to make me sophisticated and milk to make me strong.  And Jello was good for me. 

Since 1845 when gelatin was discovered/invented (patented) (Gelatin is a yellowish, odorless, and nearly tasteless substance that is made by prolonged boiling of skin, cartilage, and bones from animals. It's made primarily from the stuff meat industries have left over-we're talking about pork skins, horns, and cattle bones.), I with millions of children and sick people and people that frequent church suppers, have consumed a gazillion tons of wiggling, brightly colored, artificially flavored salads and desserts.  Jello, heavily marketed and containing basically scrap animal parts now belongs to Kraft Foods, that has over a 4 billion dollar profit per year.

It could have been worse.
We had marketers selling x-ray machines to shoe stores so the customers could see if the shoes fit right. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shoe-fitting_fluoroscope  We knew about radiation dangers as far back as the 1890's but this unregulated machine was in place in many countries from the 1920's until the 1970's.  What a cool way to sell shoes.

We have soda's--carbonated soft drinks--originally marketed as a health tonic and sold in pharmacies.  Those first recipes contained carbonated water, syrup, and such healthful additives as cocaine,  strychnine, cannabis, morphine, opium, heroin, Sarsparilla--supposed to cure syphilis, contains steroidal components, sassafras--used to be in rootbeer but comes with warnings of cancer and liver damage. 

The FDA has removed everything but the high fructose corn syrup, caramel coloring---neither are good for you, but....neither are the brightly shaded food dyes that make our children love their breakfast cereal and cupcakes and pretty much everything that isn't some shade of brown or gray.   http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2011/02/24/are-you-or-your-family-eating-toxic-food-dyes.aspx

We don't add food dyes and addictive drugs to items because we love our customers and want them to be healthy.  We do it so it will sell. 

It's all about the profit.

When I was a kid, a teacher that had been in WWII told me about a pal of his that had invented an engine that would get over 50 mpg.  The pal patented it.  But he couldn't sell it.  It was not good for the petroleum industry.  It would decrease the amount of gasoline they sold.

When I was a kid, my grandmother still had this monstrous refrigerator from the 30's or 40's that ran on gas--propane.  It was over 20 years old when she replaced it, not because it quit working but because she remarried and he had a newer one.  That newer one didn't last over 20 years before it quit.

My previous refrigerator had its door fall off it's hinges at age 3.  They couldn't fix it.  The model no longer existed so getting the door and paying the repairman would be more than a new one.

My father could take a car, any car built before 1970--and make it work--forever.  Those cars were heavy, got terrible mileage, but if you replaced hoses and filters and plugs and changed the oil and brake linings--well, in truth, it was a 1968 overhead cam he taught me to also change rings and lifters and rods, but all those things were replaceable and the car just keeps on working.

Today, a car has an expiration date.  If it is maintained well, depending on what kind, you can 200,000 or 300,000+ miles out of it.  But back then, they just kept rolling over.  It didn't matter, everything was fixable in the garage.  Add an acetylene torch and you could even fix it after you wrecked it.  Today--repairs are too high.  The parts are to high. 

Its part of that planned next purchase to keep the car maker's profits high.

That is the very essence of planned obsolescence.  That is how you keep those profits rolling in.

We have landfills over-flowing with items that could have been built to last or made to repair, instead, we make everything with a shelf-life and expected time for next purchase.

We have created our entire culture, our whole way of life on the premise that being a consumer is good for us all.  We buy over-packaged items for the convenience of it because we have to work so much we could never just make a meal from items that came from a farm.  We work 40 hours and spend 50 hours a week getting ready for work, travelling to work, taking a rest break at work and travelling home from work--usually with at least one side trip because once we get home we don't want to go our again unless its for fun.  We spend our weekends hauling kids to all those planned and organized activities that will help them become "rich and successful" adults. 

And if we have free time--we shop.  For fun.  It's an activity like going to the old farmers markets and country fairs.

Walk in a mall or a Walmart on any weekend and tell me the atmosphere is not the same as going to the fair.

We have competitive couponers.

We have shopping channels--more than one.

We have magazines that tell us how to move out last years purchases so that we don't look like hoarders. 

I'm still wearing 20 year old sweaters and socks.  The rest of me is not the same size, so stretchy stuff only---because I can spend 3 hours in the grocery store and I'm cooking for one.

I can hardly imagine a world not based on profit.

My entire life has been about profit.

Not making one, but making sure those people that are "rich and successful" are making one.

So maybe we need to start small, with those things that have a purpose that was never supposed to be about profit.

Like water, air, education, healthcare, prisons, childcare, elder care, medication, but also maybe food and public transportation.  That is to start. 

Maybe we need to figure out how to "normalize" it all so that the stockholders are not making more off their investment of money that just grows and grows through no effort of their own due to government rebates and credits and tax breaks, while the miners and roughnecks and mill workers and factory line workers, the designers and marketers and specification manual writers and bookkeepers are making out like--well like the paid help. 

Is the whole "rich and successful" the carrot on a stick the actual rich folks like to hold in front of us to keep us plugging away when most of us have never met an actual "rich and successful" person. 

I've met successful people.  People that live a full life doing what they love.  People that have followed their dreams of singing or acting or painting.  None of them became rich.  But they were successful.

I've met successful parents.  They were great at parenting.  Their children turned out to be great people.

I've met people that have ran their own business for years and paid for their home and their kids education and some vacations and cars.  The business was well respected and the employees considered their job a second home.  They were not "Rich".  Upper middle income at most.

And I've met people, a lot of people, that into their 50's were still trying to grab the brass ring.  They were chasing "rich and successful"  and it was making them miserable.  They knew they would eventually make it.  Just one more college degree.  Just one more move for a new and better job.  A bigger house and nicer car, more expensive clothes and someone would get that they were born to be "rich and successful".  By 60 they looked 70 and owed so much money they would not be able to retire until they were 90.  They had an thick belly from all the cortisol pumped into them by their own stress.  Their blood sugar was high---from the same.  If you drew their blood, it came out with chunks of what looked like butter floating in it due to convenience foods and fancy restaurants.  Their liver enzymes were always high--from all the power lunches and business dinners with at least one martini and the pain killers for the tension headaches.  The kidney function was not up to snuff from all the NSAIDs they took for joint pain from their muscle tension and inactivity.  They had daily heart palpitations in response to too little sleep and too much caffeine.  They were successful, and just knew the rich would follow. 

I've been to several of their funerals.  Too young for dying.  And frequently leaving a spouse that had no idea how to deal with the debt, although, frequently still working hard for that "rich and successful" also, so doubling down to make enough to pay both their halves of the bills. 

And I meet people that seem to have suddenly woke up.  Looked around.  Started Simplifying.  Slowed down.  Took up nature walks instead of shopping sprees.  Decreased the number of weekend kid activities so both the child and the parent had some down time.  Paid attention to the type of food they bought and cooked.  Ate in more.  Drank fewer sweet drinks.  Started weird things like meditating daily or writing what they are grateful for every night in a journal.  Took up hobbies like bird watching or rock hunting or drawing--lead pencils, even great artist quality pencils are pretty cheap.  And gardening--from raised beds to patio pots to full scale plots, the excitement of picking something you grew and eating it--pretty amazing stuff.

Perhaps, in a non-profit world, we just have to learn to redefine successful--focus on the happiness part, the kind part, the thoughtful, caring, creative part. 

Maybe we will eventually even redefine "Rich" 

Having a great deal of money or assets; wealthy needs to become archaic
    
Having a plentiful; abundant life, rich with happiness, joy, memories, skills, love---that is a "rich and successful" life that a non-profit world would be right at home with.













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